Message Helper

Rewrite what you want to say to your ex into a calm, respectful, business-like message.

Heated messages make co-parenting harder. Paste what you actually want to say — even if it's angry — and this tool will turn it into a clear, respectful message that keeps the focus on your kids and your requests. Nothing you type is saved.

What do you want to say?

Choose a tone

Always read the suggestion before sending and make sure it says what you mean. This tool helps with tone — it is not legal advice, and it doesn't replace your attorney or a court-ordered communication method.